7.15.2019

It's Sunday. It's Ben's turn to cook. And my turn to take photographs.

Ben preparing to put the salmon in the oven.

Ben is a good cook. He's had a couple of good teachers. When he was very young Patricia Bauer-Slate, a restaurant and bakery legend for decades in Austin, gave him a series of cooking classes and showed him how to use a chef's knife and paring knives to prep ingredients. I think he was about eight years old at the time. From that point on he liked to make his own lunches to take to school. His favorite sandwich being Sweetish Hill Bakery whole wheat bread, spicy mustard, slices of bleu cheese, calamata olives and a bit of pickle relish. 

In the Summer before his first year of college our friend, Emmett Fox, owner of several fine dining restaurants here in Austin, announced that Ben needed to learn five or six great pasta recipes that he could make if he ended up cooking for himself in college. Emmett gave me a grocery list of ingredients and then showed up one Saturday morning with a bag of additional stuff. He handed Ben a chef's apron and an eight inch chef's knife and they spent hours in our kitchen with Emmett teaching and Ben learning how to make all the basic Italian pasta sauces. I think Ben now makes one of the best carbonara sauces I've ever enjoyed. 

Ben and several friends shared an apartment at Skidmore College in his senior year and they all took turns prepping and cooking dinners. Ben got a lot of practice planning, shopping and cooking over the course of the year. Having spent a long semester in S. Korea the year before many of his recipes began to feature an Asian inflection. Now we have Kimchi here in the refrigerator.....

Sunday evenings are his turn to cook dinner for the family. Tonight he made one of my favorite meals; one he's become quick and proficient at. He broiled salmon fillets, made mashed potatoes and roasted Brussel sprouts. He's a great fish cook. His salmon is simple and elegant. Brushed with good olive oil an dusted with a light sprinkling of black pepper and sea salt, but it's really the timing that makes the difference. His fish is always perfectly cooked. Moist and juicy. 

His mashed potatoes are well executed and his Brussel sprouts put the same kind of side dish from most restaurants to shame. 

While he was prepping I grabbed one of my X-Pro2 cameras, set it the Acros film simulation and used the manual focusing capabilities of the camera to capture his cooking spirit. He was quick and efficient and I tried to bring the same ethos to my photography. 

A note: It's my turn to cook on Wednesdays. Sometimes I actually cook but sometimes I cheat and get take out from our favorite Chinese restaurant. Or I'll get BBQ from our favorite joint (I won't name it because it could start a civil war amongst my Austin native friends). One of the hard and fast rules in our house is that whoever's turn it is to cook dinner must also do all the clean up afterwards. The idea came to Belinda and me long before Ben was in the picture. We were both working long hours at ad agencies and we'd take turns cooking dinner. We knew so many couples who divided the work. One would cook and the other would clean up. As a result neither partner in those relationships would ever get an evening off. We figured that if one person did both halves of the equation on their night the person not cooking (and cleaning) would have the evening off to relax. Each person would get alternate nights off for pure relaxation. It's worked beautifully for decades. Belinda and I had a great meal this evening with Ben and, when we finished, rinsed off our plates and put them in the dishwasher, we went into our living room to watch a movie while Ben did the pots, pans and assorted dishes. 

Studio Dog is the only member of the family not obligated to take a turn cooking for the family. By consensus we've decided that she is far too busy keeping an eye on everything to even take a stab at doing a shift in the kitchen. She does, of course, insist on tasting some of the entrees just to make sure quality is up to snuff. It's vital work and probably why she needs those afternoon naps...





3 comments:

Eric Rose said...

Wonderful family moments! I have just been through scanning a bunch of my old "kid" photos. What memories. Some joyous, some sad. I also have a bunch of negatives from my father and grandfather. Well over 100 years old. It's a wonderful thing that they are just as good as the day they were developed.

Now a question. Why is it that adults of the younger Tuck's generation seem to always need music playing no matter what they are doing? What about conversation, listening to the world around them and being in the "moment". I guess I'm too old to understand. I do love listening to music and will spend quality time with my stereo whenever I get a chance. I also use to listen to my iPod when coding as much of it was tedious. The coding not the music. I'm not being critical, I guess it's just a generational thing. Live and let live.

We had our grand daughter over for the weekend. She is 6 and full of energy. One of our grand parent tasks it seems is to reinforce table manners. Another of the ancient arts that seems to have disappeared by what I see when my sweetie and I dine out.

Ok ok, time to get off my soap box and go out and yell at someone walking on my lawn ;)

Back to your post. It has been such a treat to see Ben grow up into the fine young man he is. Thanks for sharing this window into your world beyond photography. Ben is a very lucky person to have such caring and loving parents.

Love the pretend to be film B&W images BTW. I just hope they will be accessible to Ben's children like my grand fathers images are to me and my children.

Eric

Noons said...

It's so great to have followed Ben's growth through your blog.
I have a son at a similar age and he looks very much like Ben.
And he's sporting a beard now as well!
Thanks a lot for sharing these moments.

Sanjay said...

As you saw on my Instagram feed, the 12 year old loves to cook. While he doesn't have chefs teaching him (yet) ... he is lucky to have his grandma teach him. It makes me happy that there are certain recipes of hers that only he knows how to cook.